Each day comes  with more than we want at times, It may be a family crisis dealing with work or with your ex.  All days are not full all good things sometimes we have bumps in the road and  even larger ones at times, and when this occurs you don’t give up or feel you can’t get through the rest of the day.  But each day brings knew hurdles to jump over, and even though it’s so overwhelming you just keep on, and thank God for whatever he has for us to face each day.  I thank him each day for my Blessings and ask him to send whatever Blessings he has my way for the day and for my family to be blessed and send Angels around them and protect them.  Please remember no matter how hard you may work and how much time you give your children and if you are the only parent in the family, you are not a failure when things happen out of your control.  You loose your job, one of your children get in trouble with the Law, your family pulls away from you and your children and do not help with moral support.  Remember he is there with you Jesus he will help you through all things and sometimes it becomes so overwhelming you can’t even imagine ever seeing the light at the end of the tunnel, it will shine maybe not today or tomorrow but it will if you have faith and give God the thanks and continue to ask him to Bless you and your Family.  Life is not predictable if it were than we would all being doing great, it’s very  up in the air and we take each day one at a time and you cam make it.  And when it gets so overwhelming and you think you can’t breathe just stop take a moment and reflect and pray and ask for  help and he will be there and help you every step of the way.  And don’t think it will happen over night it sometimes takes time you didn’t get there over night so give it time it will work out.  I will not pretend and say it is easy being alone taking care of all the Bills, Children and problems that arise alone,  But hold on to your faith and your Blessings  Jesus is there give him the thanks and you will feel his arms around you and know you are not alone.  You can make it , just tell yourself each day I can make it, believe in yourself and have Faith and Love and remember your Joy just for you now and then you need some Joy.

We are all the same he does not Love me anymore than he Loves you so your Blessings are there for the asking and the thanking of them.  So go and be Blessed………..

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It is always important to get up look in the mirror and say Im gonna help someone today and hope for a Blessing ask for one and share it with others.  The main thing to achieve what you want in your life it to remember others put them first and your Blessing will flow.  Speak to the Lord daily it does not matter if you Say Thank you Jesus 10 times aday when ever you feel the  need.  He is always listening and you will receive your Blessings maybe not today or the next give it time it will come.  And never forget to help others along the way and share Gods word and how you fee.

I am who I am today a better person on this earth to help others and to do what he has in store for me, I am vessel and he sends Blessings where they are needed and I wait and am thankful.  You are the temple your Body treat it that way with love and respect and hold your head up high and you will see the way people treat you different, it is the confidence you carry through Gods Grace.  And remember your  Joy  you must decide on what your joy is.  Go and be BLessed in the name of the Lord and give him the thanks and be grateful, and you will see the change in your life and family life as well.

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In our daily  routines things become so overwhelming to the point be think we cannot take another step, but through your faith and belief in the Lord Jesus you can.  Through the Lord all things are possible even the most difficult that you feel you cannot ever recover.  I know I have been through all trials and Humilities that one could endure and think that I would never make it another day or even survive the pain.  But through the Lord and his Blessings you can too attain a feeling of peace within, and be able to help others when they are as low as you have been.  I thank  Jesus everyday for whatever his will is and for what Blessings he sends my way, and I have him with me when the bad things occur in my life as well.  You can start all over and make it on your own it is hard and it does not come easy there is work involved and you have to have faith constant faith and give the Lord the thanks for the Blessings he has given you.  I am not more special then anyone person out there and do believe me when I say I have had my share of humility and trials and pain.  What I have always had is my faith friends and family may leave you but I assure the Lord will never leave you alone to go through whatever you may have in your life.

“Trust in you unfailing love, my heart rejoices in your salvation.  I will sing to the Lord, for he has been good to me.” Psalms 13   5-6

And just when you think that you can’t continue he is there to take your hand and lead you through all trials that you are having.  Remember his love and Mercy you are protected through the Lord put your heart out there and open your mind and receive the Lord Jesus as he lifts you up.  Remember to give thanks always for your blessings and even when things are not as you wanted thank the Lord for being alive and in his grace.  He offers you a renewal everyday and thank him for the Blessings  he sends your way  open your heart receive the Joy you deserve happiness and good things take your Joy and embrace it.

You deserve your Joy and you need to take it and  not feel guilty as you deserve some Joy in your life and you need to grab it and take it, Jesus wants you to have Joy in your life.   And I always thank him for this Joy and my blessings he has provided for me and you.  I will show you how you can come from the darkest hole and loneliness one could be in.  And show you how the Lord Jesus will pull you out and Bless you just as he has done for me.  I can not tell you when and how long you may have to go through your pain I can tell you we are here to support you and to show the way out for you and your family through your  faith.  Thank you Jesus for all our Blessings today and all those all there in pain and sorrow and dealing in hard trials we are here for you and you will be Blessed.

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As you already know by now each day is a struggle of some sort with your children,job,family or just with life in general.  And I can assure you if I did not have my faith that the Lord was there to catch me each time I got weak I would have never made it these past 6 years.  I thank Jesus each and everyday for the Blessings he sends my way for I know without him I would be nothing and have nothing……  So I would say to you to keep your faith and always know that he will never forsake you, and I have wanted to give up before and tried but the Lord continues to send Blessings my way.  And I did and still have trials of problems that arise and I sometimes think how can I take one more thing I think I’m gonna just go crazy.  And with his grace another Blessing comes and he once again helps me deal with my problems.  So my heart felt prayer to you today is to say no matter what happens today I am going to face it no matter how hard it is and say thank you Jesus for Blessing me.  Just breathing is a Blessing.

“life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breaths away.”

You have faith and I will have something special to share tomorrow with you and if you want to share please do.

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There is nothing harder in this world to have to say I have failed at being married, and if you have children it is even harder to deal with.  The not knowing if your decision is the right one, will my children be ok if I go through this, will my family understand and the biggest one how will I make it alone.  Because you have been with someone for so long and in some cases dependent on everything in your life with that one person.   And in my case I stayed  much longer than I would have had it not been for the children, just being worried that they would not have everything they needed.  I was his personal slave I cleaned I cooked and even brought his food right to his chair and did whatever he ask of me, wee had no friends except his family he did not want outsiders in our life.  So what friend I did have they were as I called it day friends I only spoke to them or saw them during his working hours.  My ex never wanted to do things with the kids except punish he was up on that, he really did not get involved in their personal life’s outside the house.  He would not even attend church activities if they were not at our church.  I guess girls , what I am saying is I stayed with someone who never showed me or my children love or affection for over 20 years and I did hurt my children by staying.  Don’t stay because of the children it is sometimes much wiser to leave because of the children, they may not have everything material wise but the love and warmth that will radiate through your home when you leave will be the Blessing.  And what I have learned in the healing is if you ask God what is his will your life will change for the better.  He has so much Joy for you out there and for your children just say thank you Jesus for your blessings.   I know first hand and I want to guide you through the  rough times and please send stories of what you are dealing with or have been through, and how your children have  handled  everything.  Marriage is a work in progress everyday we all realize this but we need a partner to be apart of this on going process and to work with us not  pulling away in another direction.  I bear my share of the  fault of  my marriage turning into a divorce and I could still be there in my nice home doing everything the same as before and still be married.  In my case it took the Lord trying to show me for  years I needed to leave as it was not a healthy home for anyone of us, not my ex or my children.  And I was just to secure in my space not matter how unhappy I may have been I just could not see myself leaving my home.  I did share some of my most inner thoughts with my best friend and a lot of what I said was just out of pain unhappiness and she knew that she never took a lot of what I said serious.  But the Lord was there and he always says we need to have humility to come full circle and to be humble.  Well I certainly did I could not find an out in my eyes my daughter left for college my son was still at home

and I just gave up took an overdose and died twice, they put a tube down my throat to breathe for me and when I woke up it was the worst feeling ever, I was alive and laying with a tube in my throat and i could not move it hurt so bad tears rolled down my face.  I don’t  wish this on anyone nor to I think it’s the right thing to do.  From this came a long an ugly divorce  something I really never had the nerve to take those steps to do, it took a near death situation  to give me the strength to leave.  I must say to all who have not left or just now going through your divorce no one told me that if you leave your home it is considered abandonment in the state of  Misssissippi.  And when your Lawyers office ask you to make a list of everything you want out of the house for the judge to make the decision, take time try to remember all that is in your home and never assume your ex will give you things not on the list.  I did not have good direction on this and was blind and lost a lot of my personal things that my ex after 6yrs still will not give to my children to give to me.  And I am talking about things like pictures of my children from birth up until I left my high school year books scrap books paints ,paintings letters from friends and family clearly things that mean nothing to him, just something to hold over me.  After a long divorce  I now had to go to the Lawyers office to have him hand me barely nothing in money from my ex the long divorce ate up most of what I and my children were to receive from our home.  So now I was starting all over in a knew town with one child in college one in High School with  a physical disability and feeling so alone a if you think I wasn’t  scared your crazy.  I am telling you it’s normal to be so afraid your not sure if you can make another step, but with the help of the Lord through his grace and  Blessings you find the end of that dark tunnel.  I will be here every day to encourage you to help you and to show you that with hard work and and prayer and to give Jesus all to him for your Blessings I am here as proof you can survive and make it for you and your  children.  Every time I am blessed I stop and say  Thank You Jesus!!!!!!  For if you ask I promise you will receive he blesses all.  So stop and think if you have stayed home and have not worked in years ask yourself what skills to I have , what talents trades can I do.  If you are a college grad and have a great paying job I still encourage you to as for blessings and to give Jesus all the the thanks.  And as I told you before I was not perfect I made mistakes in my marriage as well, the difference is I care about my children and still continue to help them my ex remarried right away and has totally distanced himself from the children.  He never calls them, he never helps them financially or does he care how they are doing.  Our son needed and still needs a father but he just does not seem to think it is his place.  I want to share my case is rare not all men are this way most will work hard at making a good relationship with their children after a divorce this is just a rare situation.  And I must make it clear he was not in their life much when they lived with him.  I just thought he would embrace them and want to have a close relationship with them.  It has made a deep impact on my kids his distance and lack of showing any kind of love or even kindness towards them.  It was me who divorced him not the children they did not deserve any of the pain that has fallen on them.  As I leave for today I encourage you to share your stories ask questions.  And remember I am here with you and remember to whom all blessings come, thank you Jesus.  Just stop and write down your talents,skills things you have within you that will now help you survive.

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