You know girls I see so much mumbo gumbo about how we are suppose to be in our 50’s and look , act and most all talk about this with a spouse in tow. Well it is hard being out here alone in ones 50’s trying to survive in a whole knew world. If one was to truly believe in the words of Jesus you would know the time on this Earth is nearing to an end. As with all horrific storms and devastation in the world, you would think that our time was nearing. And I do put all my faith in Jesus he has blessed me so much and with that faith I am prepared for his return. With that said girls please take each day as it comes don’t sit and dwell is this our last day or you will drive yourself crazy. I love the fact that when I open my eyes each day that he has seen worth in me to have another day here on earth, and in that said it is up to me to make the best of my day and what happens is totally up to me. We are our own destiny and we make what happens in our lives and true sometimes we get a rock thrown our way and it may set us back. But get up and say thank you Jesus for I know you have a plan and this is just a bump in the road and a blessing is around the corner. You must work for what you get out of life, after being married so long I miss my simple life at times and even my ex and I know its just because that was habit and routine and face it it’s much easier if you are in what you know and feel secure in. I am not I chose to leave and I have had many hurdles along the way and I have prayed and have been so blessed. If I had stayed in my old life you would have never heard my voice, i would of never painted a painting and I would of never known that I could make it on my own with the help of Jesus. You are all special women out there and you have that inside you pull it out ask God to guide you. Never ever think you can’t make it because you can, we all can you have to want it. I have been off the Blog for awhile due to a lot going on in my life and to be honest I want to blog everyday and will try to get back on track. Please remember how important you are and remember to take a little time out for you each day, even if it is just 15 minutes it’s your time. And the 50’s thing well I can assure you I feel better now than when I was in my 20’s my body aches a lot more , I feel age has nothing to do with anything it’s just numbers. You are what is important and how you feel and your take on life being over 40 and divorced. If you are thinking about it and have not yet joined the single women think about it hard and always make sure it is your decision not someone pushing you. Divorce is hard it’s not an easy decision to make, and sometimes it’s so hard we just keep putting it off because it scares us as to where will I be. I am guilty of that and I finally did it but it was hard the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. And I sometimes regret because of my children it made things hard for them with his family. You must know you will be the one everyone blames if you leave so be prepared. And prepared for all inlaws to totally forget you even were ever there. I hold no bad feelings towards anyone I just want my children to be happy and treated normal they did not divorce him I did and somehow some people forget that. I am never alone I have all of you. Remember Blessings girls they are there for the asking take yours today. Bless all of you………

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