Remember all the things you have to do everyday,work,take care of your family and possibly going back to school on top of all that.  Somewhere along the way we tend to forget our needs and who we are and that You are Special Too.  In between all the care giving and trying just to survive in this world we live in today, and maybe you were  recently unemployed and now you have that extra worry on you besides all the other daily things you have already.

You Are You and in that I say You are Special and mean something and things should  not always be so overwhelming, I do understand that sometimes it’s more than you can take and maybe just taking the easy road out might be better for everyone.  No that’s not an option for us women we stand together and we unite and help each other out and with your love for your Faith you will make it through all things.  Even when it appears the end of the tunnel can’t be found believe me it’s there and you will make it, if you are thankful for all the things the Lord Blesses you with.

And I say with all the Love from within you are all Special and You are all very much individuals with your own talents and wisdom you share with your family daily.  It is hard being on your own in this world and now with the economy in the shape it’s in that’s  just another obstacle to overcome and you are strong you can prevail.

I came with only my children and the Lord Jesus in my heart and with his Blessings I have been able to be here today to show you how Important you all are to him and to your family, and how much you give to us all by being you.  So the next time you have your pitty party and you will remember you can make it and you are Special and You are You and with that said you ask for your Blessings and you give thanks and come back and tell me your special stories of how your Blessings helped you and always remember to give thanks to the Lord for all you have received and for what is coming your way.

Do something for you today, if it’s just 20 minutes alone in the tub listening to your favorite music with a nice glass of wine.  Have your Special time!!!!!

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As I have always told you all this is a day to day process never knowing what may be in the path for the next day or next trial.  We as single Divorced Women work so hard at out Families ,lives and trying to make a living to survive in this world of so many trials.  Well girls as you have noticed I have been off the Blog for a few days due to a family crisis once again, I am not  free of trials or pain.  My Baby Dog Bella has been so sick for over a week now with her pancreas and it has been touch and go I have had to put everything on hold as she needs my constant care 24 hrs a day we go daily for IVs at the vets office she gets loaded with meds and she still is not responding for get the cost which I can’t afford but will do without to pay to try to keep her alive that’s what we do as mothers ,we are the rock for everyone even our beloved pets.  So there was much more about seeking jobs working on you, preparing for your life alone, and taking what you know and have and making it.  We will get into that this week, But due to my crisis at home I ask for your Prayers For Bella a 7yr old Yorkie who looks like a baby fox hair as silky and shiny and black eyes to break your heart.  My baby is in so much pain I have prayed and ask all I know to pray for her recovery but I must be honest she’s touch and go and she is very weak today, I just pray she makes it through the night with your prayers it is possible.  I will be back on track as soon as I handle what you all will or may come across in the future and I will be here to uplift you as well. 

Reaching For The Faith

To believe in all that is in our hearts and holding on to Gods word don’t hold back as I have went through this

overwhelming time, my Faith has kept me strong, and i do cry constantly of the thoughts that she will not  make it I just continue to Reach out for my faith in the Lord Jesus and ask his Blessings to save her or to Bless her so she may wake up and be Bella again without pain, but I have to remember he may have decided that he wants her and I need to prepare myself, Ladies through all things may it be Family, friends or you loving Pet it is all the same constant prayer and Faith N Reaching out to Jesus for your faith is constant and he is always there.  All I can do is give it to the Lord and what ever his will I have to accept and go on, as you must do the same in your lives situations.

May you call out raise your hands give thanks and let the Lord know whatever his will we will have our Faith.

Ladies don’t hesitate to share your trials or ask questions and if I can help I will answer all questions or needs we are sisters of a situation, being we are now free and it may seen hard but you are strong you can make it, And I am here

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Each day comes  with more than we want at times, It may be a family crisis dealing with work or with your ex.  All days are not full all good things sometimes we have bumps in the road and  even larger ones at times, and when this occurs you don’t give up or feel you can’t get through the rest of the day.  But each day brings knew hurdles to jump over, and even though it’s so overwhelming you just keep on, and thank God for whatever he has for us to face each day.  I thank him each day for my Blessings and ask him to send whatever Blessings he has my way for the day and for my family to be blessed and send Angels around them and protect them.  Please remember no matter how hard you may work and how much time you give your children and if you are the only parent in the family, you are not a failure when things happen out of your control.  You loose your job, one of your children get in trouble with the Law, your family pulls away from you and your children and do not help with moral support.  Remember he is there with you Jesus he will help you through all things and sometimes it becomes so overwhelming you can’t even imagine ever seeing the light at the end of the tunnel, it will shine maybe not today or tomorrow but it will if you have faith and give God the thanks and continue to ask him to Bless you and your Family.  Life is not predictable if it were than we would all being doing great, it’s very  up in the air and we take each day one at a time and you cam make it.  And when it gets so overwhelming and you think you can’t breathe just stop take a moment and reflect and pray and ask for  help and he will be there and help you every step of the way.  And don’t think it will happen over night it sometimes takes time you didn’t get there over night so give it time it will work out.  I will not pretend and say it is easy being alone taking care of all the Bills, Children and problems that arise alone,  But hold on to your faith and your Blessings  Jesus is there give him the thanks and you will feel his arms around you and know you are not alone.  You can make it , just tell yourself each day I can make it, believe in yourself and have Faith and Love and remember your Joy just for you now and then you need some Joy.

We are all the same he does not Love me anymore than he Loves you so your Blessings are there for the asking and the thanking of them.  So go and be Blessed………..

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It is always important to get up look in the mirror and say Im gonna help someone today and hope for a Blessing ask for one and share it with others.  The main thing to achieve what you want in your life it to remember others put them first and your Blessing will flow.  Speak to the Lord daily it does not matter if you Say Thank you Jesus 10 times aday when ever you feel the  need.  He is always listening and you will receive your Blessings maybe not today or the next give it time it will come.  And never forget to help others along the way and share Gods word and how you fee.

I am who I am today a better person on this earth to help others and to do what he has in store for me, I am vessel and he sends Blessings where they are needed and I wait and am thankful.  You are the temple your Body treat it that way with love and respect and hold your head up high and you will see the way people treat you different, it is the confidence you carry through Gods Grace.  And remember your  Joy  you must decide on what your joy is.  Go and be BLessed in the name of the Lord and give him the thanks and be grateful, and you will see the change in your life and family life as well.

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In our daily  routines things become so overwhelming to the point be think we cannot take another step, but through your faith and belief in the Lord Jesus you can.  Through the Lord all things are possible even the most difficult that you feel you cannot ever recover.  I know I have been through all trials and Humilities that one could endure and think that I would never make it another day or even survive the pain.  But through the Lord and his Blessings you can too attain a feeling of peace within, and be able to help others when they are as low as you have been.  I thank  Jesus everyday for whatever his will is and for what Blessings he sends my way, and I have him with me when the bad things occur in my life as well.  You can start all over and make it on your own it is hard and it does not come easy there is work involved and you have to have faith constant faith and give the Lord the thanks for the Blessings he has given you.  I am not more special then anyone person out there and do believe me when I say I have had my share of humility and trials and pain.  What I have always had is my faith friends and family may leave you but I assure the Lord will never leave you alone to go through whatever you may have in your life.

“Trust in you unfailing love, my heart rejoices in your salvation.  I will sing to the Lord, for he has been good to me.” Psalms 13   5-6

And just when you think that you can’t continue he is there to take your hand and lead you through all trials that you are having.  Remember his love and Mercy you are protected through the Lord put your heart out there and open your mind and receive the Lord Jesus as he lifts you up.  Remember to give thanks always for your blessings and even when things are not as you wanted thank the Lord for being alive and in his grace.  He offers you a renewal everyday and thank him for the Blessings  he sends your way  open your heart receive the Joy you deserve happiness and good things take your Joy and embrace it.

You deserve your Joy and you need to take it and  not feel guilty as you deserve some Joy in your life and you need to grab it and take it, Jesus wants you to have Joy in your life.   And I always thank him for this Joy and my blessings he has provided for me and you.  I will show you how you can come from the darkest hole and loneliness one could be in.  And show you how the Lord Jesus will pull you out and Bless you just as he has done for me.  I can not tell you when and how long you may have to go through your pain I can tell you we are here to support you and to show the way out for you and your family through your  faith.  Thank you Jesus for all our Blessings today and all those all there in pain and sorrow and dealing in hard trials we are here for you and you will be Blessed.

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As you already know by now each day is a struggle of some sort with your children,job,family or just with life in general.  And I can assure you if I did not have my faith that the Lord was there to catch me each time I got weak I would have never made it these past 6 years.  I thank Jesus each and everyday for the Blessings he sends my way for I know without him I would be nothing and have nothing……  So I would say to you to keep your faith and always know that he will never forsake you, and I have wanted to give up before and tried but the Lord continues to send Blessings my way.  And I did and still have trials of problems that arise and I sometimes think how can I take one more thing I think I’m gonna just go crazy.  And with his grace another Blessing comes and he once again helps me deal with my problems.  So my heart felt prayer to you today is to say no matter what happens today I am going to face it no matter how hard it is and say thank you Jesus for Blessing me.  Just breathing is a Blessing.

“life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breaths away.”

You have faith and I will have something special to share tomorrow with you and if you want to share please do.

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